From the time we are little girls, we dream of living "happily ever after"....It's why we get addicted to "chick flicks", I can't tell you how many times I have heard women say "I know that God wants me to be happy, and I'm not happy in my marriage" so they proceed to take their marriage and their happiness into their own hands, and they leave. I know, I did it more than several times, thank God, He kept bringing me back to my marriage, and to a venue that He gives us to live "Holy ever after". We are given "every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places" (Eph. 1) in our identity in Christ....why are still not happy? why are we so discontent?