The first key to getting your breakthrough is that you have to admit that you have a problem. Tell God you need him to take control of your situation. That you cannot handle it alone. I do not care what you are going through, an abusive marriage, financial problem, drug or alcohol dependancy, children, spouse, family, and even people on your job is acting up. Whatever it is, you have to admit that there is a problem and you need God to take control of your situation.